• fwdbias@lemm.ee
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    2 hours ago

    So I’ve been seriously thinking about NZ for a while now, was filling out the application and figuring out banking and such until they changed their immigration policies about a year ago. When did you start your process? How long did it take? Is it a work visa? If so how did you find an employer willing to sponsor?

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    Good luck man!

    As someone that left the US a decade and a half ago, here’s some things to go ahead and start getting answers to so you don’t have to figure it out when the time comes:

    • Figure out how to get a bank account (hopefully you’ve already worked this one out before arriving)
    • Where to buy toiletries and medicine. Specifically deodorant. The UK is mostly spray deodorant where as I’m a stick deodorant person. At one point I was just bringing 4 sticks of deodorant back with me after every trip home. I’m not sure which way NZ leans but it was definitely something I hadn’t considered before
    • Where to buy socks and underwear you’re comfortable with
    • Figure out how the health service/insurance works. Go ahead and book dentist and doctors appointments 6 months in advance if possible so you get in the habit.
    • Figure out how paying taxes works
    • If you’re a US citizen, remember you’re still required to file taxes with the IRS every year.
    • Learn how to make friends. I still haven’t figured this one out. Let me know if you do.
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    18 hours ago

    Congrats on having a backbone. Hope you enjoy the vast experiences in your new life!

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        That’s a bit harsh. Like my old man always said, “you gotta know when to hold 'em; know when to fold 'em; know when to walk away and know when to run.”

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            Actually, my dad hated that song. It was my mom who was whistling it all over the house.

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            It might be, but if you think about it, it also applies to life in general, which has a lot in common with gambling. Sometimes you have to take risks, sometimes the risks are stupid…

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          It’s not. Granted, I 100% respect and understand someone’s decision to leave the USA at this time, but there’s very little that’s courageous about putting yourself into a better situation. It’s the next option up from rolling over and dying.

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            I didn’t expect such a backlash from a dumb comment which was only intended to reference The Gambler.

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            Yeah, walking away from every person you’ve ever known and every support system you’ve ever had in hopes of a better future with no real promises to fall back on if it doesn’t work out isn’t courageous at all.

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              I’d call courageous moving into a red state… and then everything you said above still applies. I moved from a red state to a blue state in October. Everything you said applies to me, but I can assure you that my decision was not one that was “courageous.” It’s self preservation.

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                Self preservation can take courage.

                You’re being nitpicky for no reason. Something can be courageous without being the most courageous thing anyone has ever done.

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        People have been fighting for like 8 years now.

        Its over, sometimes it best to just walk away.

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    7 hours ago

    Ahhh, the privileged leaving behind the many to suffer that want to leave but can’t.

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      Don’t say that on Lemmy. It’s full of the privileged pretending to be the meek, and they dont like to be called out.

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      Sorry to say for you and me, but suffering under fascism doesn’t solve anything. If we don’t defect or rebel, we’ll just end up in mass graves.

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      do you blame them? should they stay until everyone that wants to leave can too?
      a lot of people fled nazi germany before they started killing people too….
      and, you can leave too… just maybe not with much money….

      if i had a trans kid, i’d take them to any country that wasn’t trying to kill them…

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    Congratulations! Made it to the UK from the US yesterday myself. Let’s hope our new lives will be great!

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      12 hours ago

      Would you mind sharing how you moved to the UK and what the requirements / difficulties were? Thank you!

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        Or learn the old “eat the TV before the inspector arrives”.

        I guess I’m showing my age, but hopefully enough old folks get it.

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        I’ve heard this joke many times, never understood it.

        Does UK need licenses for everything or something?

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          They have a license you’re supposed to have to watch the BBC basically a TV tax for people who actually watch it. License enforcement has always been off their rockers. Back in the day they said they had a TV detector van that they would drive around and detect if you were watching a TV without a license. They send you threatening letters if you don’t have a license. They’ll even come to your door and try to make you prove you don’t have a tv. You can just tell them to leave.

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        Hopefully OP can live with trading “needing a TV license for a TV no one uses anymore” and “actual healthcare” for a “failing democracy turned Christian nationalist oligarchy”!

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            Oi sonny Jim this isn’t a loisense request this is a loisense request request it’s a different department Oi hope you’ve got all yer paperwerk in order jimbo

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        Only if you have a TV. Theoretically, you need one to stream the BBC/ITV and such on a computer/phone, but the onus is not on you to prove that you didn’t. You’ll get letters asking to confirm that you don’t need a licence, and then threats of an inspection to make sure you don’t have a TV that’s on and being used to watch TV, though I’m not sure if they follow through with the latter. (In the analogue days, they had detector vans that either could detect TV tuners tuned to channels or were a bluff to get people to pay up, though they seem to have given up on that.)

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          Ah interesting, here in Switzerland the rule was if you have a capable device that’s enough. They didn’t have to prove usage.

          And now that they also stream online, any computer and smartphone counts. So they recently changed the rules to just charge every household.

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          The detector vans were real, and they weren’t a bluff, but the tech they used wasn’t some high tech signal detector. The secret is that they just pointed a parabolic microphone (possibly a laser microphone at a later time) at your window and listened for the audio. The operator would flip through TV channels in his van and try to match the audio from your house to the audio from a currently broadcasting TV station. That was sufficient to determine if someone was watching broadcast tv or not.

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          They don’t follow up on the threats - or at least not regularly. (9 years and counting here - even if I somehow get caught and fined the max amount I’ve still saved money)

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          Stabbing? American here, never heard of it…, it’s like shooting but no range, lower body count, and not something a physically inferior person can do to anyone equally effectively, right?

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      Welcome to the uk did you pick up your complementary kettle on the way in? Sorry the rail network is such a mess but what can you do. Glad to have you bud o7

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        Honestly, other than the fact that we were really confused about where to go due to poor signage (and missed our train twice and got lost when we were supposed to change trains), we enjoyed the train ride. We did pay for first class on for the Avanti West portion, but it was worth every penny. (Or am I supposed to say worth every p now?) And since we came from the land of very few trains that all suck, the actual train rides were great. And people were super helpful with our heavy luggage.

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          Glad to hear you arrived safe and well. Also, for your information :
          Galleons: The primary unit of currency, typically made of gold. One Galleon is worth 17 Sickles.
          Sickles: The second unit of currency, made of silver. One Sickle is worth 29 Knuts.
          Knuts: The smallest unit of currency, made of bronze.
          P.S. : Next time for the train you should get to Platform 9 and 3/4

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              😋 Today i learned about :

              Cowrie shells

              (from GPT) … were widely used as a form of money in many parts of the world, particularly in Africa, Asia, and the Pacific Islands. Their durability and portability made them a practical medium of exchange.


              Such culture ! I’m convinced you will find a great job and i hope the best for your kid as well. Take care 😌

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          It’s still known as pennies here. It makes more sense for a pence to be called a penny than it does for a cent to be called a penny.

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      Wondering why I hadn’t see you posting much recently. May and September are the two best weather months on the south of the UK.

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      Welcome! Weather’s a bit shite at the moment and monsoon season (February to May) is just around the corner, but it’ll brighten up for 2 weeks in June and for the last 2 weeks of August.

      Drop me a DM if you’re heading up Manchester way and I’d happily give you a tour and you’re more than welcome to come over to my family’s place for a Sunday Roast.

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        You should have seen what it was like when we left the U.S. in terms of weather. This is far better. Thanks!

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      My brother in Christ, the UK is already addicted to Middle East and Russian money, they don’t need drug trafficking money like Venezuela to ruin their political system.