• r0ertel@lemmy.world
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    7 hours ago

    That’s a bit harsh. Like my old man always said, “you gotta know when to hold 'em; know when to fold 'em; know when to walk away and know when to run.”

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        20 minutes ago

        Actually, my dad hated that song. It was my mom who was whistling it all over the house.

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        10 minutes ago

        It might be, but if you think about it, it also applies to life in general, which has a lot in common with gambling. Sometimes you have to take risks, sometimes the risks are stupid…

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      It’s not. Granted, I 100% respect and understand someone’s decision to leave the USA at this time, but there’s very little that’s courageous about putting yourself into a better situation. It’s the next option up from rolling over and dying.

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        13 minutes ago

        I didn’t expect such a backlash from a dumb comment which was only intended to reference The Gambler.

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        6 hours ago

        Yeah, walking away from every person you’ve ever known and every support system you’ve ever had in hopes of a better future with no real promises to fall back on if it doesn’t work out isn’t courageous at all.

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          6 hours ago

          I’d call courageous moving into a red state… and then everything you said above still applies. I moved from a red state to a blue state in October. Everything you said applies to me, but I can assure you that my decision was not one that was “courageous.” It’s self preservation.

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            Self preservation can take courage.

            You’re being nitpicky for no reason. Something can be courageous without being the most courageous thing anyone has ever done.