It’s happening!
This is the same with my last ex. I quit and left, invited him to come with me but he chose drugs. I don’t think he’s dead but I’ve had to block him on all channels, every come down he calls begging me to take him back saying he’ll change. I’m not sure he ever will because I don’t think he wants to change, drugs gives him something to feel awful about and that’s what he wants/feels he deserves.
Absolutely no regrets on my part even though I thought we were going to get married one day.
I’ve just come back to look at this after your comment and it is now solidly blue and black to me!
I’ve turned the lights down in the room I’m in so that may have had an effect?
I’m the same, looking straight at it all I can see is white and gold. Like a bright gold even, it’s not even brown.
If I look at it in my peripheral vision it’s very clearly blue and black though 🤷.
No, this sounds like a great idea and something I’d like to see as well.