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  • LainTrain@lemmy.dbzer0.comto196@lemmy.blahaj.zonePoorly socialized rule
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    15 days ago

    There’s def something to be said by just how alien the cishet dynamic is to me for example.

    I have no concerns regarding children, no concerns regarding gender or power, I’m in a transbian relationship with another trans woman, we don’t have to work very hard to be equal in terms of societal sex dynamics.

    It’s not all like we’re super enlightened Buddhist monks or something, we fight and get pissed and get upset, but man, that kind of discomfort and disconnect and almost a quiet rage I feel that cishet men and women have towards each other because of the broader state of societal relations between the groups just isn’t something that plays into it for me.

    I suppose while being queer is generally more a curse practically in most of the world, this sort of freedom is some reward for surviving through it. I’m grateful to my past self for powering through all the threats of violence and suffering, through being disowned and everything and tell her that living will be worth it one day, and that everything will be alright.







  • For all the time of VK’s existence? He hasn’t been involved with VK since 2014, it says that literally at the top of his Wikipedia page.

    2014 is the same time that Russia’s real fascist face started to show in terms of the laws the duma was putting out internally and of course the actual invasion of Crimea and the attrocities carried out by Russia that followed. Lots of businessmen saw which way the wind was blowing and fled.

    I do not trust any billionaire asshat, least of all a tech billionaire asshat, and if you read the libertarian new age techbro drivel the guy says on his telegram announcement thingie you just know his political opinions are probably dogshit, but I don’t think he’s in open cooperation with the fucking Kremlin.

    The only suspicious thing here is the unbanning of Telegram in Russia. There’s of course the explanation that it was practically ineffective, and roskomnadzor unblocked it to save face, as they were made quite a laughing stock of at the time by the public (I am Russian originally and was still in touch with the russian internet scene back then, so this is my personal experience). But it’s also very possible they paid him off, so I’m not necessarily defending him either.

    As for his visits to Russia, it’s clear for what purpose. I don’t think visiting e.g. family is an issue necessarily, so it can’t be used as proof of collaboration. I am also not sure whether it’s true.

    I “trust” him in the sense that now that I am a resident of a five eyes nation, I would not use a western company’s service because backroom dealings will always be done and compromises will be made, much like how if I was still in Russia, I would only use west-aligned services with whom the Russian state is unlikely to deal with. His arrest is only further proof of it.

    Unless it’s just a power grab due to the role Telegram started playing in the information war during the war in Ukraine, in use by both sides.

    People babble on about E2EE and how there’s only metadata, but shit, you can infer a lot from metadata, depending on how extensive it is, and you will only be able to do more now with ML.

    What telegram has that other messengers don’t is a solid business model that doesn’t rely on data collection. Meta definitely does not. Signal also does not. The pressure is on them.

    If signal was usable at all I would use it, if you could send actual .gif files like a normal person in WhatsApp, I would use it, and if Matrix had more than 5 users, I’d consider it.