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  • Isoprenoid@programming.devtome_irl@lemmy.worldme_irl
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    2 months ago

    So, again, who the hell says “activity” instead of “already hung out with someone”?

    Is the part of the joke that the person is dysfunctional in turning people down? Wouldn’t a healthy introvert turn someone down in an appropriate manner?

    A well regulated person could say something like:

    “already did that with someone/you recently”. I’ll catch up with you another time.



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    2 months ago

    You are being downvoted because you are basically saying that if you relate to the joke, there’s something wrong with you and you need help.

    That is incorrect, and kinda offensive. You made a lot of people feel like you think they are fucked in the head.

    Lets review.

    The joke has the premise that an introvert did an activity yesterday. Let go with a mundane activity: doing the dishes.

    The punchline is that because the introvert did an activity (even a non-social activity), they are now prevented from catching up with a friend for several days.

    I assume that this is a dysfunctional person. But you’re telling me that this is okay, and not dysfunctional.





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    2 months ago

    Edit 3: Thanks for downvoting. I see the problem. The joke is just written poorly. Here is a better version:

    Friend: wanna hang out tomorrow?

    Me: I hung out yesterday. Please wait the three day recovery period to submit another hang out request.


    Social anxiety =/= introverted

    Edit: If this is not social anxiety, it still isn’t introversion.

    “I actually performed an activity yesterday.” What healthy introvert would claim a non-descript, mundane activity would put them out of interacting with anyone for days?

    Edit 2: Electric Boogaloo: If you downvoted, please seek therapy. You are not healthy. Life is easier than your mind is making it.